Sharon Simons (Hettinger)
I think Jim (Lanier) is correct. A lot of us were shy, or at least 'not popular'! I was thankful to be involved with the choirs, pit band, rehearsal pianist for the musicals, etc...I loved that...and playing for instrumentalists who were involved in 'solo and ensemble' (music contests) for local and regional/state. In that regard I met a lot of people, but was not 'popular.'
I think there were a number of cliques...be it certain classes, or from certain parts of town, or in various sports, etc...
Probably THE CLIQUE right now includes all of us on this forum!
No matter where one travels, there are those folks who associate just because of common interests. And when various individuals help connect people with different interests to achieve a higher/broader goal, then other barriers fall away.
Even (or even moreso?) in the churches I have served, I see various 'cliques.' It's a human-nature thing... And, folks can feel comfortable being with like-minded contemporaries.
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